"The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return." -Moulin Rouge
Things seemed to have calmed down after the after Valentine's Day look at your love life. For several people I know, well, they screwed up...even me. You see I couldn't deal with what was given to me, love. Now, all I do is want it back.
Please don't be like me and screw things up. You see, love is such a splendor thing. It lifts us up, and for those moments when it crashes we think about how stupid we were. We let someone in just enough so that they could crush us from the inside. We want to give up. Say "the hell with that!" and swear that nobody should ever do this to us again.
But then we get inspired by a stupid blog that says a cheesy quote, and makes the point that: "We go through many people we love, and it sucks because not a single one of them come to us at our beck and call. Some move away, others move away from us once they figure out who we are, some we move away from because we see who they are. After all this misfortune, we give up. But then we have to live with the fact that the spark we feel is bigger than the hurt we feel. And that if the most repulsive people can find somebody to love and show the same affection towards, then so can we."
When one moves away from someone after seeing who they are, they why should he/she regret for that later (even though they had a so-called spark once)?
ReplyDeleteLOVE is a gift, if one feels the real spark, he/she shouldn't move away from the other no matter whatever the reason is !!!
Wish you find a real-one soon, if you didn't by now...
The spark is nothing more than the excitment of meeting someone new, but it is what fuels the hunger for love. It's hard to determine the real spark from the fake one until you've expirienced the real one. But that fake spark goes away once you relize that that someone isn't for you because you can't see them for thier perfections anymore, just thier imperfections. And, you might regret it because you think "How did I not notice that before?"
ReplyDeleteI hope you find someone to give you that everlasting spark, if you haven't already, too.
Hmmm, Thanks. Even I'm looking for that real everlasting spark....
ReplyDeleteAnd, Whatever you said about fake-spark and real-spark, I see it in other way. There is no such thing called as a fake-spark, maybe it's nothing but a mere CRUSH that you get upon other gender. It's we, who should to be sane enough to figure out the difference between the Crush and the Spark (of true Love)...
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